This is part of our fatherhood in 200 words series where we asked dads to share a little about themselves, their most prominent memory of their first year of fatherhood, the best parenting advice they have received and a message for dads-to-be. Each answer was limited to 50 words and you find them here unedited and as given.
After many years in the Telecoms Industry I’m currently assisting in the sale of a large telecoms projects. I have two sons (14 and 18) and a daughter (22).
Prominent memory from first year of fatherhood:
I remember coming home with our daughter after several days in hospital, placing her in the middle of the lounge in her car seat and thinking “Wow, its just us two and our baby…” and thinking how scary that prospect was. The scariness soon past and we began the exciting task of “Parenting”.
Best fatherhood advice received:
Don’t look at other people’s children wondering why they appear to be perfect when yours are maybe not so well behaved, you don’t know what they are like at home. Its very easy to try and make your children fit a mould, don’t try… let them be themselves and encourage them to be their own character.
Message for men expecting their first baby:
Parenting is something we make up as we go along, hopefully to the best of our ability – other than when we are so tired, or stressed that we don’t quite act the way we would want to - even at those times always try to treat your child the way you would want to be treated (whatever their age or yours).